Triumph Over Trolls:

How to Thrive in a Hater's Paradise

“Haters Gonna Hate”. Unfortunately we live in a world where, no matter what you do, there will always be someone who disagrees with you. It's a fact of life, like gravity or the inexplicable way that socks vanish in the dryer. But fear not, dear reader, for today we embark on a journey to explore the curious phenomenon of "haters," those individuals who seem to have made it their life's mission to criticize and complain about everything under the sun.

Picture this: You're on cloud nine, reveling in your latest accomplishment. Maybe you've just launched a new business, written a book, or lost some weight. You're walking on sunshine, and nothing can burst your bubble—until you encounter a hater. This person, who probably spends their free time sharpening their negativity like a finely honed blade, has a talent for raining on parades and turning smiles upside down.

But here's the thing: haters are actually worth their weight in gold. No, really! They're like the unsung heroes of your success story. Why? Because they serve as a sort of built-in quality control mechanism. Allow me to elaborate.

  1. You're Doing Something Right: Haters tend to flock to those who are doing something noteworthy. If they're buzzing around you like a swarm of disgruntled bees, you must be doing something right! After all, nobody bothers to criticize mediocrity.

  2. Haters are a Comedic Goldmine: Picture this: You're sipping your coffee, scrolling through your social media feed, and you stumble upon a comment that seems to be dripping with venom. What do you do? You laugh! Haters often provide unintentional comedic relief with their over-the-top negativity. Embrace the humor, and let it fuel your determination.

  3. Fuel for Your Fire: Haters can provide the spark you need to keep going. When someone tells you that your dreams are impossible or your goals are too lofty, use that negativity as rocket fuel. Prove them wrong and watch their jaws drop!

  4. A Mirror to Self-Reflection: Sometimes, haters can provide valuable feedback buried beneath their snarky comments. Take a moment to examine their criticisms objectively. Is there something you can learn from their perspective? It's not always easy, but growth often comes from embracing constructive feedback, no matter where it comes from.

  5. Be the Bigger Person: Responding to haters with grace and kindness can be a powerful lesson for them and a source of inspiration for others. When you rise above the negativity and focus on your goals, you set an example for those who may be facing similar challenges.

In the grand tapestry of life, haters are just one colorful thread. They may stand out with their vibrant negativity, but they're still a part of the larger picture. Instead of letting them drag you down, use them as stepping stones to elevate yourself to new heights.

Remember, the world is full of people who are ready to support and encourage you. Surround yourself with positivity, and don't let the haters steal your sunshine. So, the next time you encounter a hater, smile, and wave. After all, haters gonna hate, but you? You're gonna shine!

In the immortal words of Taylor Swift, "Haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate. Shake it off!" ~RS

Haters gonna hate, but I'll keep soaring to new heights with my positivity and determination. Their negativity won't hold me back!

DAILY AFFIRMATION

Good morning. It's Friday, Sept. 22, and we're covering a major media shakeup, no end in sight for the ongoing auto strike, and much more.

Need To Know

 

Murdoch Steps Down

Longtime media mogul Rupert Murdoch announced yesterday he will step down from his role as chairman of Fox News and News Corp. sometime in mid-November. The 92-year-old Murdoch will be replaced by his son Lachlan, who has long been viewed as the likely successor to the media empire.

Auto Strike (Likely) to Expand

The United Auto Workers' strike against the three largest US carmakers could potentially get bigger today amid the union's self-imposed deadline for seeing progress in contract negotiations. Without a breakthrough on a deal by noon, autoworkers are threatening to expand their strikes to more facilities.

Miami-to-Orlando Line

The first privately funded passenger rail line in the US in more than a century opens today, shuttling riders in Florida between Miami and Orlando. The $5B Brightline railcar is expected to make the 235-mile trip between the state's two economic hubs in about three-and-a-half hours, about 30 minutes quicker than by car.

Politics & World Affairs

> Biden administration grants temporary legal status to more than 470,000 Venezuelan migrants already in the US, expediting their ability to work (More)

> US officials issue tropical storm warning for the East Coast, ranging from North Carolina to Delaware; system likely to reach coast late tonight (More)

Etcetera

 

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Sports, Entertainment, & Culture

> Actor Angus Cloud's cause of death ruled as accidental overdose of fentanyl, cocaine, and other drugs (More)

> Bronze medal-winning Olympic bobsledder Aja Evans files lawsuit alleging multiple incidents of sexual assault by a chiropractor on Team USA's medical staff (More)

> Second lawsuit against Lizzo by a former employee alleges the singer created and condoned a hostile work environment (More)

Science & Technology

> Authors John Grisham, George RR Martin sue OpenAI, alleging its ChatGPT platform used their material without permissions while training on its large language model (More)

> Paleontologists find evidence for the earliest known vertebrate animal with a skull cavity; discovery was made from the fossil of a 455-million-year-old fish species (More)

Business & Markets

> US stock markets close lower (S&P 500 -1.6%, Dow -1.1%, Nasdaq -1.8%); S&P 500 sees worst daily drop since March (More) | Bank of England holds interest rates steady for the first time in 14 meetings; current 5.25% rate is highest in 15 years (More)

> US home sales down 15% in August over last year, but median home sale price of $407,100 is up 4% over last year (More)

In-Depth

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> How to Handle a Bad Boss

Harvard Business Review | Elainy Mata. (Podcast) A leadership coach helps listeners identify signs they have a toxic boss, laying out strategies both for navigating the relationship and healing afterward. (Listen)

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Growing friction between the strategically partnered countries spiked this week when Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau accused the Indian government of assassinating a Canadian citizen on Canadian soil.

Trudeau announced Monday that Canadian intelligence has investigated “credible allegations” of the Indian government’s involvement in the June killing of Hardeep Singh Nijjar, a Sikh activist who rallied for an independent Sikh state in Punjab, India. India called the murder accusation “absurd and motivated.”

Inspiring Stories

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Gene and Virginia Nelson celebrated 75 years of marriage last month. Meet the sweet Oregon couple and read their relationship tips.

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Post of the Day

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