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Stepping into the Unknown:
"If You Want Something You've Never Had, You Have to Do Something You've Never Done"
It’s a phrase we’ve all heard at one point or another: "If you want something you’ve never had, you have to do something you’ve never done." It has that simple, yet profound ring to it, like a life-changing mantra disguised as common sense. And the more you think about it, the more you realize how true it is.
Change is a funny thing. We all crave something different or better at some point, whether it’s in our careers, relationships, health, or personal growth. But that desire is often paired with a resistance to change our routines, comfort zones, or behaviors. It’s the classic paradox: we want more, but we resist what it takes to get there.
Why Doing Something New Matters
Imagine you’re someone who has always admired artists and wanted to be one yourself, but the furthest you’ve gone is doodling on a notepad during meetings. To be a real artist—someone who creates and shares their work with the world—you’ll have to step out of that private comfort zone. Maybe it’s signing up for a class, posting your work online, or even making time to draw every single day. It’s these new actions that lead to new outcomes.
Consider how this idea plays out in different areas of life:
Career Growth
Let’s say you’ve been working in the same position for years, and though you're comfortable, you feel stuck. Your heart wants to climb the ladder, but you’ve never applied for leadership roles or tried to develop new skills. To get that promotion or start a new career, you'll likely need to step into something unfamiliar—maybe a night class in a new field, or asking for opportunities that push your limits. Comfort won’t lead you there, but discomfort might.Health and Fitness
I’ve been there—wanting to feel stronger and more energized, yet sticking to the same old routine. For years, I thought occasional walks would be enough, but deep down I knew I wanted something more—strength, endurance, and that post-workout high people talk about. It wasn’t until I stepped into a gym and faced my unfamiliarity with weights that I started seeing changes. It was uncomfortable at first, but that discomfort was the price of achieving what I hadn’t had before.Personal Relationships
Relationships can sometimes feel stuck in routines as well. Whether it's a friendship or romantic relationship, we fall into patterns. If we want deeper connections, we have to be willing to have conversations we've never had, or express vulnerabilities we usually hide. Maybe it's making the effort to be more emotionally open, even though it feels awkward at first, or initiating new activities together that can rekindle that spark.
My Own Journey with the Statement
There was a time I wanted to start writing publicly. I’d always written privately—journals, short stories that I kept to myself—but I yearned to connect with a larger audience. The problem was, the idea of sharing my thoughts scared me. What if I was judged? What if my ideas didn’t resonate? But the truth was, to experience the connection, feedback, and sense of fulfillment I wanted, I had to do the thing that scared me: hit "publish."
That first newsletter post felt like a leap off a cliff, but the reward was instant. Not in the form of fame or fortune, but in the realization that I had moved beyond my comfort zone. The validation I sought wasn’t external—it was internal. I had done something I’d never done, and it opened a door to something I’d never had: a real sense of self-confidence in my voice as a writer.
Embracing the Unfamiliar
This concept isn’t about wild risks or reckless behavior. It’s about being open to the unfamiliar. Sometimes it’s as small as having a conversation you’ve been avoiding, or trying a new hobby that seems intimidating. Other times, it’s as big as moving to a new city or changing careers. Whatever the case, doing something you’ve never done is a gateway to possibilities that didn’t exist before.
So next time you feel stuck, wanting more but unsure of how to get there, remember this: the thing you seek is likely just beyond your current routine, and the only way to reach it is by stepping into something unfamiliar. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.
When you dare to step out of what you’ve always known, you’ll often find the things you’ve always wanted, waiting just on the other side. ~RS
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